Should i stop texting her to make her miss me

If you’ve just met someone and think there might be chemistry, you may feel the urge to build momentum by sending a thoughtful text.

But what if you don’t receive a text back quickly? Are you’re left feeling exposed, anxious, and vulnerable?

Stop texting him and see what happens

Or, when they do text back, their text doesn’t match your expectations. Are you left feeling deflated and exposed?

If you had hopes or expectations that you would get a thoughtful, affirming response quickly, it’s easy to get stuck ruminating about why they haven’t responded, or what their brief response means.

In these situations, whether it’s their intention or not, you end up feeling rejected. If you don’t know the person well in real life, it’s all too easy to assign a whole story about why they haven’t returned your text, or why their text doesn’t match your expectations.

Because you can only interpret texts through your own emotional and experiential lens, there is a high probability that you will inaccurately impose a tone onto their texts that reflects how you’re feeling, which leads to the d

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